Intimacy

Definition:
sexual activity: activities associated with sexual intercourse

For example:
"they had sex in the back seat"









In my opinion, sex is heavily overrated. There are many dating reality tv series such as the bachelor and etc. which provides a message as though you can find your 'true love' through one or two dates with different candidates and also to have sex wit the different candidates will help you realize who is the girl you are destined to marry.

In addition, the world is selling sex as something that is cheap and common. What I meant by selling sex as something cheap is through advertisements, there are many scantily clad or sexual images that are used to attract attention of the male race. Many people in the advertising field believe that SEX SELLS!!!!

Next, the thing i meant by common is through a common practise nowadays which is one night stands(ONS). ONS have 3 simple rules; FUN, F***, FORGET!! However, ONS are so common among the working adults and now its coming into the culture of the youths. ONS is just a short fling between 2 strangers. ONS might be fun as there is always an issue of commitment with our partners in life.

In my opinion:

Sex is something that must be cherished as once we engage sexual intercourse with another person. We tend to leave something behind. Like an attachment. Im not meaning leaving things like (c**) or STD or other tangible stuff.. but more on intangible items such as memories and emotions. Sex is considered to be 'beautiful' among partners. However, if a relationship is based on a sexual activity, there will be a lacking of courtship in that relationship. Thus, it prevents better understanding of each other in the relationship.

Unproper sexual activity such as rape and abuse can lead to veils of shame placed upon the victim. This veils of shame is like a dark robe place on a person. Such shame, victims would like to hide and kept away from the clutches of the world. Such shame and fear will always live with you forever. However, a physical injury from a fight can heal over time.

Treasure your body as though it is as valuable as gold. You must understand. Everyone deserves to be valued and respected. Everyone's self value is more valuable than any crowns or gold. Guys must learn to treat girls with utmost respect and value them heavily as gold. The guys must treat girls as sisters(except your partner), where they will be protect and kept safe. that is sumthing i learnt recently.

So all in all, sex is a powerful tool that once misused can create different consequences to different ppl..

overall remember.. practice SAFE SEX!!!!!

~comments are well appreaciated~